I told H yesterday that maintenance, for now, had served it's purpose and I was okay to stop. He looked at me completely bewildered. "In my opinion. Of course, it is up to You." I hastily added.
Truth be told, I am having a rough time right now. Not because of TTWD, but because of other truths we have to deal with in our lives. And I feel like I am getting too shrill around having maintenance as a stopgap for my other fears.
I guess what I am trying to say is that maintenance has become the primary interaction when we are too tired for anything else, which is lately, every day. Me too, not just H. And I never wanted our sex life to be a checklist item.
I am okay with the idea of scheduling sex (Wednesdays and Sunday afternoons?), but only if it is not the only times it is considered. And lately, without maintenance, there would be blessed little else.
Not counting yesterday, which was a double header. :))
Kitty,
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Maintenance is a big deal here too...lol...a double header huh! Hey when you have the energy you might as well get it all in. :)